Love, respect, and activism

Every now and then I come across someone who says and lives what I have been trying to articulate for so long.

My friend Paul just posted an essay announcing his exit from the "vegan community."

It is, at the very least, challenging. Especially to me - since so much of my identity is wrapped up in being an animal rights activist. The vegan community is one that I value as a way to support people in moving away from animal products and towards a lifestyle that respects the animals' right to live their own lives.

But, like any community, the people in that community define rules to regulate its members' behaviour. People bring many diffeent definitions of what vegan means and how people should live.

This leads to a lot of arguing about who or what is vegan, a lot of judgement, and potentially a lot of arguing. The focus becomes the rules rather than celebration of living a life of compassion - or, as Paul puts it, "love."

Because, really, being vegan is an act of love. Yet people who decide to go against the grain of the world around them and announce that they are now "vegan" face intense pressure - from inside the vegan community as well as from outside. Living vegan means more now than simply striving to live a life free from animal products - it has become in invitation to be measured, to be judged, to be critiqued for one's mistakes, definition of vegan, and so on.

For sure, it makes sense to have a strong definition of the word vegan. I mean, who among us hasn't faced a waiter who has proclaimed that it's ok for vegans to eat fish? Or the aunt who asks us if it's ok for us to eat garlic, or potatoes, or mushrooms, or chocolate? So I get the frustration of someone calling themselves vegan while wearing a wool sweater or someone being 99% vegan but having an egg once in a while, or any other of the infinite variations we see.

Being vegan then becomes something that we not only live ourselves, but a word, a way of life, that we need to defend from becoming diluted (like has happened with "vegetarian").

Does this hypersensitivity to what's vegan and what's not really help at all? Or does it create an environment where we are tied to a label, forgetting why the "vegan" way of life was conceived in the first place? Do we forget the animals?

And do we also forget the love? What would it mean to really and truly embody "veganism"? Peace, love, compassion. How would that be manifest?

I tend to think of Gandhi as the ideal vegan. He lived a compassionate life and concentrated inwards, working towards perfecting himself and leaving the lives of others alone.

But he was also an activist, standing up for the sanctity of life. He was non-violent in word and deed.

Today's vegans are a mean and angry bunch, quick to attack and slow to forgive. I'm primarily talking about how I see veganism reflected in myself.

The challenge then, is how we can be animal rights activists while living a vegan life. Maybe the word is a mistake, maybe it does make sense to toss it out and work on a world where we are not bound by labels but are instead dedicated to an ethical life and our ethical responsibility to each other (and all life by extension)?

What do you think?

P.S. once again I have to apologize for the haphazard nature of my thoughts. I hope you are able to glean a bit of what I am trying to say.

Comments

Anonymous:

It seems to me that the problem is in the approach and not with veganism.

Veganism is the least we can do. I mean, all it entails is not directly participating in animal exploitation. That is a pretty low bar.

The trick is educating the public and our fellow advocates about veganism and animal rights while not being judgmental and while being humble enough to grow.

But the problem is not veganism. I do not think that we can have a coherent animal rights movement without principles against participating in animal exploitation.

Dealing with disagreements and people feeling judged has been a part of every successful movement -- it's just part of the job. And in many cases, debate has been useful to improving advocacy and shifting paradigms.

I have seen people get down and discouraged with advocacy because of internal debates. I agree with them -- it sucks and is not fun. But I think that it is important to keep it in perspective -- compared to what the animals are going through, dealing with infighting and debate is a piece of cake.

Anonymous:

Labels are confining. I still struggle with calling myself vegan although it defines me more than anything else because I don't like to be pinned down. (Cred: it was Glenn who sold me on veganism from vegetarianism with a few main facts I'd been blindly ignoring.)

I don't think there is an ideal vegan. I think that we create the type of world we want to live in and sometimes we have to let go of small details along the way to accomplish big goals.

http://dawnofanewera.wordpress.com/2011/02/14/being-a-good-vegan/

Candice:

I can relate to this, although I have not become a judgmental person trying to sort out who's vegan and who's not or point out faults in others. In fact I happen to think if you can do something 99% your doing a damn good job! I find myself reading things that make me not want to associate myself with a certain portion of this community, absolutely! I don't let others tell me how to think, talk or behave, so I am not too concerned about not agreeing with the crowd, they are not who I want to be. There are those I admire (yourself and J included), and those who I find ridiculous (I hate to say it, stupid even). So, is it better to not call yourself vegan, or to represent the best you know how? I feed my cats cat food...so am I vegan? I found Brian Vincent has some good posts about this too, , and other issues, he said when he attended the Animal Rights conference, people were discussing things like, 'do you have to throw away 20 pairs of shoes and buy all new ones once you become vegan? If you wear your old shoes till they fall apart, how does that affect animals?' - stuff like that. (Ya, I know you're gonna say you know where I can buy all those new shoes ;)But I mean, really, being a vegetarian was so much easier, I would think of calling myself that and still eat the same as I do now, just to not have to be scrutinized(by vegans AND non-vegans), cause I think it's bullshit.

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